My boyfriend i've been with for almost 2 1/2 years never wants to do anything new?

Besides the fact that he lives off his loans and then won't work although he has more than enough time to. He prefers to surf instead and then complain how he doesn't have money. Then the only way we can do anything new is if i pay for it, not that i have a lot of money or anything, but i'm basically the dude in this lame *** relationship, and i don't even feel like he appreciates it. Every time i say lets go somewhere else and get the **** out of san diego, he's like ugg i have no money.. and then i can't just go to vegas or anything without him. So now i'm just stuck in this shitty situation. Then on top of that with his awesomely not busy schedule he's too tired to have and i'm better looking than he is!!!. i'm going to lose my mind...he's like one of my best friends, and i don't know how to fix the situation so it's either that or i break up with him.